hey guys, I am a new member in here. I have been reading this forum for 3 days now and I loved how you guys in here always help, advice and care for each other so I decided to join. and because obviously I am a martial arts fan been training for a year now but reason I am here is that I need help with a part of my life.
my issue is basically that I am a loner, i have no friends, i spend most of my time at home or at the gym, at first i was alright with having no friends but now it is really effecting me. no one ever calls me or invites my any where or is interested in me, part of why i joined a gym is to meet people but i can meet people and talk to them a bit but that is it, we only talk very little and is one sided convo from me. so i am feeling like I am not the guy you invite any where, you become friend with or even want to talk to. I try to chat with people, be nice, smile but it does not work. everyone I know posts pictures of them with friends out in beach, party or any where and I am just sitting at home 70% of the time watching tv and having no social life not because of lack of trying.
It took me lots of courage to do this, because I am really embarrassed to admit this even to myself because I feel there is something wrong with me, my parents are like that, they do not have friends and I hate that but every time I try to make a friend, it does not work. I do not know why, I try to make, small talk, chat, smile but I nothing works, I can not make friends and it is effecting also beginning to effect myself esteem and mentality.
so I really need help
thanks
my issue is basically that I am a loner, i have no friends, i spend most of my time at home or at the gym, at first i was alright with having no friends but now it is really effecting me. no one ever calls me or invites my any where or is interested in me, part of why i joined a gym is to meet people but i can meet people and talk to them a bit but that is it, we only talk very little and is one sided convo from me. so i am feeling like I am not the guy you invite any where, you become friend with or even want to talk to. I try to chat with people, be nice, smile but it does not work. everyone I know posts pictures of them with friends out in beach, party or any where and I am just sitting at home 70% of the time watching tv and having no social life not because of lack of trying.
It took me lots of courage to do this, because I am really embarrassed to admit this even to myself because I feel there is something wrong with me, my parents are like that, they do not have friends and I hate that but every time I try to make a friend, it does not work. I do not know why, I try to make, small talk, chat, smile but I nothing works, I can not make friends and it is effecting also beginning to effect myself esteem and mentality.
so I really need help
thanks
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