male vs female

I really don't like men vs girls in grappling/mma whether in sparring or in actual competition because it puts the guy in such an awkward position. If he loses he is a pussy. He will never hear the end of that. If he wins its nothing he can boast of and if he hurts her he is a woman beater.

But because men tend to outnumber us in the gym, sometimes they have to match girls vs guys. In my experience, I don't know any guys who feel comfortable sparring me or any other girl. Do you?