mercredi 4 février 2015

question about leaving a school to join another

hello my frens.



serious question.....



is switching bjj schools really something that's looked down upon?



here's my situation....since having a third kid, it's been hard to train at my typical time--mornings. and by hard i mean impossible. needless to say, getting two kids ready for school (and all that entails), getting the baby fed and changed is all taken together a big task. i've been staying home so my wife doesn't have to do it all, because she also has to get ready for her day because she works also.



i've considered starting to train at nights again. but a gym opened down the street from me, only a half-mile away. and the nighttime class-start time is good: 7 pm. i can hang out with the kids, help get them fed, get me and my wife fed, get the kids mostly ready for bed, then easily walk over to train. it's not that my curent gym is that far, but i have to drive there to be efficient, pay for parking, and the night time class start time is 6:30. so not as useful of a time for me to help my wife with the work of dealing with our children.



i'm thinking of switching. only because of the convenience. i love my current gym, coach and other people that train there. but at the end of the day, i have to be selfish a bit.



is it still a thing that's looked down upon to switch bjj gyms? some kind of unwritten rule?



i am going to talk to my current coach about it too. but wanted to ask for your feedback also.



thanks!




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