Should I find a different instructor?

So this is a follow up from my last thread. I talked to my instructor about not entering the tournament and he was like too bad. I tried to explain to him that I needed time off for the summer to work since I work a second shift job and he was like won't you have one day off during the week. And I'll only be gone for two months. Which I probably will but I would rather spend time with my fiancée. And my instructor just made feel guilty about picking my loved one over martial arts. Which I feel is messed up. I feel like my instructor just sees as some type of profit and it really ticks me off. I tried to make him happy by saying that I would still practice in my free time over the summer but he didn't seem to care. So I was wondering should I just try to find a new instructor when I decide to come back at the end of August?